none of us will ever be the same
Self-sabotaging and self-destruction are the first in line as opposed to freedom, change and new beginning every time you make a decision. You might have a good intention in mind but you never know the outcome until the decision is made. You might be surprised, you might horrified, you might regret - the trouble is you don't know until you make this decision.
I'm not going to say "but you need to make a decision, be brave, take a risk". It's all bullshit. Be as cautious as you want to be, in the end of the day it might do you good. You can weigh all pros and cons, make a spreadsheet and a pivot table but even this doesn't guarantee a planned outcome.
I guess what I'm trying to say, take all time in the world to make a decision. But once you make it - don't look back and brace yourself if the the wind of change will turned out not as warm as you expected it to be.
I'm not going to say "but you need to make a decision, be brave, take a risk". It's all bullshit. Be as cautious as you want to be, in the end of the day it might do you good. You can weigh all pros and cons, make a spreadsheet and a pivot table but even this doesn't guarantee a planned outcome.
I guess what I'm trying to say, take all time in the world to make a decision. But once you make it - don't look back and brace yourself if the the wind of change will turned out not as warm as you expected it to be.